Monday, February 26, 2007

It's the least I could do...

Who we love and appreciate and respect throughout our lives, often live their entire lives without hearing how grateful we really are. My parents...my shining stars...my examples...I would not be the woman I am today without them. They taught me, through example, to be honest, respectful, fair, and happy. They taught me that it's ok to be mad but don't be mean. They taught me that people sometimes deserve a second or a third chance. They taught me to stand up for what is right and to protest what I believe is wrong. They taught me that a little goes a long way. They taught me that when life hands us lemons we make lemonade and to count our mistakes as blessings for without a mistake we don't truly learn. Mostly, they taught me to be firm and tender to have fun and be responsible; they taught me to love and trust and how to build a strong family--all through their example.

I have watched my mom and dad live together, raise children together, suffer hard times together, lose their parents together, battle cancers together, pray together, grow together, celebrate life together.

I read Robert Fulgum’s book "All I Really Needed to Know I learned in Kindergarten" but the truth is, "All I really needed to know, I learned from my parents."

As they celebrate their 39th wedding anniversary this Friday, from thousands of miles away, I say THANK YOU for showing me the true meaning of a happy marriage, of a supporting lifelong commitment, and a true partnership

and I LOVE YOU!

Birthday Lunch Celebration
Here's a picture of the group after our birthday celebration last week at Porcao Churrascaria in Flamengo. It was a very enjoyable afternoon, surrounded by friends and way too much food. Once again....moderation....

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Eating healthy or Eating Well?



Last night on the return from the shopping center, Joe and I decided to stop at Gavea Sushi and get a sampling of what they have. We both really like Sushi, is was Ash Wednesday, so we couldn't eat meat, and we had both been wanting to see if the the little hole in the wall sushi place on the corner that we pass every day is any good. We ordered the sampler that is shown in the pictures with me and Joe here. 50 pieces of sushi!! I am always surprised by how filling it actually is. As well, every day for lunch I eat a salad. Probably 3 nights a week I make a dinner out of salad only, and recently I took this beautiful picture of a chicken salad Joe made for me one night.
Then I got to thinking, what is healthy eating? You see the size of the salad fills an entire dinner plate (I couldn't finish it by the way). The amount of sushi between the two of us last night was way too much. Yet, all of the ingrediants are "good for you".
Here's what I have concluded...anything, IN MODERATION, can be healthy. So it isn't always a matter of eating healthy. I have concluded that it is moreso a matter of eating well. And for my non-sushi-liking...once you get over the consciousness of what you're eating the stuff is really very good!

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

List of 4's
I just got a "List of 4's" from my friend Tammy. I thought I'd share it will you all:
FOUR JOBS I HAVE HAD IN MY LIFE
1. Middle Level Educator
2. Nanny
3. Campus Security Hamline University
4. Erickson's Grocery Checkout Girl
FOUR MOVIES I HAVE WATCHED OVER AND OVER
1. Spanglish
2. Return to Me (my all time favorite movie ever ever ever!)
3. High School Musical (not always by choice but by Sierra's choice)
4. Grease (I still remember the dances my sister Dana and I made up while listening to the soundtrack record)
FOUR PLACES I HAVE LIVED
1. Isanti, MN
2. St. Paul, MN
3. Houston, TX
4. Rio de Janeiro, Brasil
FOUR TV SHOWS I LIKE TO WATCH (I no longer watch TV, but if I did)
1. Grey's Anatomy
2. ER
3. American Idol
4. Candid Camera
FOUR WEBSITES I VISIT DAILY
1. All the links on my blog and Tammy's blog (some of you should really post more often!)
2. Teaching Tolerance
3. ASCD.org
4. disney.go.com
FOUR PLACES I HAVE BEEN ON VACATION
1. Puerto Villarta, Mexico
2. Carmel Valley, CA
3. Virginia Beach, VA
4. Door County, WI
FOUR OF MY FAVORITE FOODS
1. Japanese
2. Brazilian breakfast of bread, cheese, fresh fruit, coffee
3. Picanha
4. Aipim
FOUR PLACES I WOULD RATHER BE RIGHT NOW
1. St. Lucia
2. On a boat (as in my house is the boat 24/7, dock to work and on the sea the rest of the days)
3. Reading in the hammock
4. Next to the pool (it's 10:30 p.m.)

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

Just wanted to add this shot of the three of us from this afternoon. We are outside the restaurant in Flamengo. Behind us is the sugar loaf mountain (Pao de Azucar). Turned out to be a pretty good shot! :-) Lunch with 15 others friends who live here and newly made friends who are visiting was wonderful. Can't complain about this brilliantly blue sky!
Carnival 2007!
Banda de Ipenema para Infantil was definitely the highlight of our Carnival experience. We went to a park in Ipenema yesterday afternoon that was having a Carnival party just for children. The bataria (drum band) parade just around in a circle within the park and the children were all dressed in costumes, enjoying the party.


Here is little Sophia in her pirate(ess) costume made by her grandmother for the occasion.
We spent about 2 hours in the park. Sierra bought 3 cans of that spray foam/soap stuff that is totally gross and she and Mateo, another child from EA, proceeded to "war" against eachother and any innocent bystander who got in the way. Both of them at more than one point were soaked in white foam...as were many of the adults in the group.





Here is Sierra, moderately covered, trying to get away from dad before he retalliates. After the party in the park, we took the beach road home with Julie and Gustavo and Camilla and another visiting friend Marcus and his son Lucas.
I particularly enjoyed watching Sierra have the opportunity to run around through grass and open space for awhile, smiling the whole time.




On the way home, Sierra decided she was hungry, and she and Joe stopped by a street vender grilling sausage and meat (filet meow we like to call the street meat).





Along with the costumes that the kids were in, there were many carnaval-like accessories to buy.
Sierra looks good as a "green" head! :-)

Today we are going for lunch to a churrascowith about 15 other people to celebrate Feb. birthdays. There are 4 people who have celebrated their birthday in the last week, including Joe. http://www.porcao.com.br/br/unidades/ipanema/default.asp
Should be a nice afternoon. The rest of the week will most likely be spent laying low and relaxing. We are considering a day trip to a local island for one day and another day trip to a beach a small drive out of Rio. I'll take pictures at lunch today to post later so that the feel of the churrasco can be displayed....peace and love to all.

Monday, February 19, 2007

The State of the World?
If you read the last post, you know I am struggling with the discovery that the world, namely Rio, is not in actuality as I wish I could view it through my rose colored glasses. Instead, the inequality and injustice of our realty has recently slapped me in the face--hard, knocking off those rose colored glasses I had previously never removed. I spoke to the guarda de pascina (lifeguard) yesterday afternoon upon leaving from my sunbathing post next to the pool, asking him to please explain to me what happened the night before with my friend who was watching my daughter. The first excuse given was that she doesn't live here, therefore she isn't permitted to swim. When I pointed out the dozen non-residents currently swimming, the excuse changed to the fact that she is a Baba (nanny). I reiterated the fact that she is not a baba (as if that should matter) and she is my friend and colleague. He apologized profusely to me, but somehow it doesn't matter. An apology cannot make up for this type of situation. The good news...I successfully "argued" in Portuguese. When I retold the conversation to my friend who is fluent in portuguese, she said, "I understand exactly what you said. I'm actually quite impressed that you were able to communicate that well. That's great." Language gives an amazing amount of power.
My overriding question/concern: Is there a place in the world where classism and/or racism doesn't control the underlying functioning of the society? Somebody please tell me because I would like to know what is wrong with the state of our world. It is 2007, right? People are still people, right? Why is it so hard for that to be accepted? Why is it so hard to get along without judgement, without inequalities, without mistreatment? These situations make me feel very alone, as if I am the only one in the world who just doesn't get it.

Sunday, February 18, 2007


What's Wrong with the World Mamma?
I'm not sure how to begin this post, or what exactly to say, or how to word what I am feeling. Images of Martin Luther King, Jr, Mahatma Ghandi, Rosie Parks, Nelson Mandella, even Malcolm X flash through my head...
Do I love Brasil? Yes. Do I love my life in Brasil? Yes. Am I completely disgusted at this place right now? YES.
But what does a person do when they are directly associated to blatent racism? Segregation? Discrimination? Last night, Sierra's babysitter was not allowed to swim with her in the pool when Joe and I were out taking in Carnival festivities. The excuse: she's not a resident in the condominium.
The truth: she's black.
Just last week, when our friends came to swim, there was no issue when both the adults and their one year old daughter jumped in. Friday, when I checked with the lifeguard about regulations, I was told: no problem, of course. Last night, she was not allowed to swim! I'm saddened, I'm sickened, I'm frustrated, I'm irrate.

Thursday, February 15, 2007

Deborah Colker
http://www.ciadeborahcolker.com.br/eng/acia/index.htm
Sierra has been privileged two times now as a guest at the Deborah Colker dance studio in Gloria, RJ. Escola Americana has a dance and language teacher who works with the lower school children as a specials teacher. Lorraine does amazing work with the kids in incorporating dance and language and literature. Sierra has really come to enjoy her Thursdays with Ms. Lorraine, and Lorraine has become somewhat of an adult support person for Sierra at school. If she is having any issues with other students or concerns about classes, Sierra asks to see Lorraine before the school counselor. This speaks highly of Lorraine. Lorraine, who has worked with internationally known dance studios, has a professional connection with Deborah and her dancers. Lorraine has twice now been able to set up a visit to the studio for the students at Escola Americana. Wednesday afternoon, Sierra and I, joined by about 20 other Escola Americana teachers and students, went to Deborah Colker's dance studio for a special viewing of a rehearsal. The particular show we were graced with watching happens in and around the transparent box shown in the pictures. The first photo of the solo woman in the "box" is Deborah herself, the other is part of her company. It was a really fantastic experience. Sierra sat in awe, only feet away from the movement with her mouth wide open the entire time.
Cruisin?

I hope you are able to click on and enlarge one or both of these pictures. Moreso, I hope you can have half the excitement that we experience almost daily as we glance out the windows or over the veranda and catch a glimpse of a passing ship. I have lost count of how many "boats" we've seen to date from our apartment, yet every one feels like the first. One of us will yell, "Hey guys! Come quick!" and shortly there after all three of us will be standing on the veranda looking toward the sea. Tonight we caught sight of two different cruise ships. The pictures here are of the bigger of the two we saw. I think Joe counted 10 floors on the front end of the ship! It was enormous!
Taking a cruise has never really been on my agenda or list of desires; however, I have recently learned that there is a cruise line that ventures up and down the coast of Brasil only. The thought of this type of cruise is interesting to me, especially knowing how remarkable the shoreline is throughout this country. Perhaps one day, we will fulfill this desire.

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

How many steps a day do you take?
I recall, at more than one stateside school, the pedometer phase. This was part of a McDonald's campaign one year. If I remember correctly, it was shortly after "Super Size Me" made national the possible results of a diet consisting solely off the menu at this famous fast food chain. It was a challenge in those days to log in at least 5,000 steps a day. I remember days when I would feel so healthy after reading 10,000 on my pedometer before turning in for the night--of course those were the 3Day training days too. It is impossible to ignore the effect that a person's environment has on the routine physical activity one endures. I think during an average day at Escola Americana, I could possibly reach the max on a pedometer--assuming it has one. In addition, half of the "steps" would literally be STEPS, as in stairs.
For example, as you can see in this aerial shot of the stairs we take up from the bus ramp every morning on the way to the cafeteria for breakfast. Where we come from at the bottom of this set of stairs is the soccer field and past the soccer field is the bus/car loading and unloading area. Down further from the bus/car loading and unloading area is the teacher's parking lot, which you get to and from by traversing a series of additional stairways that run through the forest. A 15 minute workout on the way to start your day!
After breakfast, it doesn't take long to burn the calories consumed, as what you see when you exit the cafeteria following both breakfast and lunch is here in this picture. As you can see, the first sets of steps is not intimidating as they are only 6 or 7 steps in their entirety. However, making it past these does not ensure an easy climb the rest of the way to your designated division within the school. As you can see in the following

Here is the next set of stairs, and you are still only about halfway to your destination.


At last you turn your corner, and behold...another flight of stairs! I personally have 5 more sets identical to this in order to reach the floor where my classroom is. Many mornings I stop after the first 2, go over to the MS office, check my box and then venture to the remaining flights toward my destination.
Earlier this week, I was reminded of one of my initial fears upon arriving in Rio--STAIRS! Irrational? Not really. Every day, in the back of my head, I worry that Sierra will fall down a flight of stairs, ending with a broken limb. To ward off such events, I recite the Guardian Angel prayer each day as I kiss her farewell and we proceed in opposite directions for the day. This week, my fears came true (kind of). Sierra came to my classroom after school on Monday to report she had "fallen up the stairs" earlier in the day, leaving a medium scratch and a healthy egg on the elbow. I hadn't even realized the threat of falling UP the stairs. Luckily, my worst fears did not come true in that there are no broken bones and today, 3 days later, she is barely complaining about the soreness of her elbow.

So, given the fact that most mornings by the time I'm eating breakfast, I've probably logged 3,000 steps and by lunch time, another 3,000, I think the fact that my lifestyle is currently void of a formal exercise routine is okay. Afterall, this is a chronicle of the walking done solely at school and doesn't include the 2 blocks to catch the bus in the morning or the countless blocks wandering neighborhoods we often do in the evenings and on the weekends. And the view from the top of all those stairs at Escola Americana is quite possibly the best view from any campus in all the world!

Thursday, February 08, 2007

Friends out for Samba!
Uma Princessa do Mangueira
With Carnaval approaching quickly, many of the Samba schools across Brasil are in full swing with rehearsals. As part of this, as we are learning, many of the schools are open to "the public" (basically who ever wants to go and has R$20 to pay the cover) Saturdays until the week of Carnaval. Last Sat, since Sierra was spending the night at a friend's house, Joe and I took advantage of the opportunity to visit Mangueira's Escola de Samba with a few other friends and see what this samba business is all about. I have to admit, the energy of the drums is intoxicating--or was it the cervaja of the evening that was intoxicating?
Here's Joe after he took his turn on beerrun!
Me with "the boys".
Our homework now consists of determining which Blocos (Block Party) we'll attend. I have been told of a couple that are geared toward criancas (children) and happen mostly during the day. The parades are another huge attraction and last from 10 or 11 p.m. until 7 or 8 a.m. We have the whole week off from school during Carnaval, which ends on Ash Wednesday, so we should have plenty of time for recooperation following whatever festivities we do end up finding. Should be a great way to kick off lent with plenty reasons to abstain after almost five days of solid parties.
As this finds many of you in the frozen northern hemisphere while we sweat through our days this month, I'll leave you with a beautiful photo of Botafogo beach at night, taken by a friend of ours.